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submitted on Tuesday, February 14, 2012 - 15:50 by dustinstewart

Now if you are a hunter like me, when you hear the word "scope" it immediately conjures up an image of a device that sits on top of a rifle. A scope alows a person to see farther and notice things that would be impossible with only their normal eyesight. However when you use the term "scope" in another context, such as the "scope of the damage", it refers to the entirety of something or the sheer magnitude of something. I have a question, what is the scope of God?

I know, I know. There are the "Omni- words: omniscient, omnipresent, and omnipotent" that we all use to explain just how powerful and how big God is. But in reality do we really understand the magnitude, the scope of the Holy Spirit here on Earth? Do we really "get" the scope of our God's plan? I for one have a tendency to forget just how blinding the glory of God can be.

Lately I have been feeling burdened: for the lost, for the saved who are struggling, for those who are looking for love in all the wrong places, for those who are chasing after the world rather than God. Such thoughts can cause even the most faithful child of God to question His plans and to become jaded to all that they see around them. However I just had a phone call that changed all of that. Please allow me to share about the scope of our God.

 

Many of you remember that in November you sent me to Uganda with the charge of "preach the Gospel!" The most profound moment of the trip for me was when on the 6th day we landed upon an island and were trying to hurry towards the jungle in an effort to have VBS wih some schoolchildren. The morning started off with a great deal of discouragement. The boat motor wouldn't work, many of us had to be carried off the boat onto the island (remember the water carries diseases and causes we muzungu/white americans to break out in a rash), and our scheule was in total disarray! However while we were trying to get everything off the boats and on shore I heard someone call my name. Thinking nothing of it I heard my name called again and turned to find a young mother with her child in her arms. In very broken English she begged for us to go and pray for her sick child at home. We followed her throughout the village until we stopped at the 25 square foot hut that her entire family lived in. Upon entering we found a young 3 year old girl named Maria lying upon the ground. She was covered in flies, her eyes were yellow, and she was not moving. Her mother picked her up and pleaded with us to pray for her daughter: "I have heard your God heals!"

It was at that moment that I realized the scope of our God. We had no magic pill with which to heal little Maria. All of my education didn't make any difference at all. All that could make a difference was the Power of God. We all laid hands upon little Maria and began to pray. While we prayed I cried, I wept because there was nothing any of us could do to help this child. I had spent a great deal of time studying the disease that had this child in its grip. Malaria: the number one killer disease upon the face of the Earth. Even with medication the disease can inflict great harm and even shots and pills can't always prevent one from catching the disease. All logic and understanding of modern medicine told me that this child would most likely die unless she was taken to a hospital.

After we prayed we left that village and proceeded onto our original destination. I asked a fellow missionary named Darlene how that woman knew my name. She had no explanation, again the scope of our God is as far-reaching as the heavens themselves. Again, I cried and felt more humbled at that moment than I have ever flt before.

Today as I worried about people, sin, evil, and my own inadequacies I got a phone call. The call was from my friend Camryn who was there alongside me as we prayed for Maria. He wanted to let me know that he had gotten a call from our friend Darlene who is still serving in Uganda even now. She had recently been to that same island where this had all taken place. That same mother sought her out and again brought her to that same hut. Only this time she wanted to show Darlene how her precious child Maria was now healed.

 

Don't ever forget the magnitude, the scope of our God. His power is beyond our comprehension and His plans are always good plans. While sometimes we feel as though we need to be in control of the planning process, perhaps we should just be content to get a small glimpse of His glory every once and awhile.

 

May the Lord bless you, and keep you, and cause His face to shine upon you.

 

Bro. Dustin

submitted on Sunday, February 12, 2012 - 16:42 by stevecirlot

Can a Divorced Man Be a Deacon?
1 Timothy 3:12
Sunday Night
February 12, 2012

 

Introduction:

At the Business Meeting in March we will vote yes or no to the following question, “Is there ever a time when a divorced man may serve as deacon at Ridglea Heights Baptist Church?” Tonight’s message is designed to give you the biblical insight you need to make this decision. Remember your decision should not be made on emotion, but on sound understanding of the Word of God.

Tremendous damage will be done to God’s church if the Bible says a divorced man cannot serve as deacon and we at Ridglea allow it. But equally, tremendous damage will be done to the Kingdom of God if the Bible teaches that there are some instances where a divorced man can serve and we refuse to allow him. We must not knowingly and willingly chose to disregard proper exegeses of scripture. We must be diligent and persistent as we determine the truth of God in this matter.

In 1 Corinthians 4:6, Paul reminds us that “we must not go beyond what is written” and in Revelation John says we must not “add to or take away” from God’s Word.

 

The One Woman Man

The first text we need to consider is 1 Timothy 3:12 which says, “Deacons must be husbands of one wife.” Some take this to mean they can have only one wife presently, some take it to mean no polygamy and some take it to mean only one wife ever.

One Wife Ever

This view would mean a man could be only married once and if his wife died and he remarried he would be ineligible to serve as a deacon. This cannot be so because scripture says that a man and a woman are to be united until death separates them. Paul make this clear in Romans 7 where he says after the death of a Husband the woman is free to remarry.

Polygamy

Polygamy is a man having more than one wife at the same time, like Jacob and Abraham. At first glance this may seem logical because of the English wording, “husbands of one wife.” However polygamy was not an issue in the Roman world at the time of Paul’s letter to Timothy. It was not an issue and therefore would not have been something to be addressed.

Aner-mia-gyne

Then what does husband of one wife mean? In the Greek, aner means several things: man, husband, fellow or sir. Mia means one and gyne means woman or wife. Most Greek scholars agree that the best translation is a one woman man. Now what is a one woman man? Jesus is always concerned with the heart. Remember what God said to Samuel about David, “Man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7) Jesus is always looking into the hearts of men. To Jesus a one woman man is a man who loves one woman and one woman alone. His heart is devoted to her 100%. As far as he is concerned there is no other woman who is capable of stealing his heart. He is a faithful provider, protector and leader. No man who cannot love his wife and provide for her as he leads and protects her is fit for the office of deacon.

Does the Bible permit divorce?

God is not a fan of divorce. In fact the NIV translates Malachi 2:16, “God hates divorce.” Divorce exists because of the hardness of a person’s heart.

Read text (Matthew 19:2-9)

The Pharisees were trying to put Jesus in a box and trap Him, but He would not have it. He explained that marriage is God’s design and that design is for one man and one woman until death separates them. The problem is people are sinful. So when a person commits adultery, divorce is permitted because of the hardness of people’s hearts. Therefore, if a man’s wife leaves him for another man he is permitted to divorce her and vice versa.

Does the Bible allow for remarriage?

One of the questions at hand for Paul and the Corinthian church is that of marriage. In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul instructs the people to stay in whatever situation they find themselves. If married stay married, if unmarried stay unmarried. Then he says if an unbeliever chooses to leave a believer, let them go and then he says it is best to stay unmarried. Then to those under distress (which applies to the divorced) he says:

  • Therefore I consider this to be good because of the present distress: It is fine for a man to remain as he is. Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife. However, if you do get married, you have not sinned, and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. (1 Corinthians 7:26-28)

There seem to be two biblical exceptions which allow believers to remarry: 1) when an unbeliever has abandoned a person of faith and 2) when a believer has a spouse who has committed adultery. There are some people who can function without remarrying and they should do so, but for those in one of the above situations who cannot live a sexually pure life they, “should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with desire.” (1 Corinthians 7:9)

What about people who are divorced and remarry before they come to faith in Christ?

When a person comes to Christ he or she comes as a new creation.

  • Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away, and look, new things have come. (2 Corinthians 5:17)

Their sins are washed away.

  • As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. (Psalms 103:12)

Then God remembers them no more.

  • “It is I who sweep away your transgressions for My own sake and remember your sins no more. (Isaiah 43:25)

At confession and repentance God removes guilt and deems the newly saved individual as redeemed.

  • Therefore, no condemnation now exists for those in Christ Jesus. (Romans 8:1)

All this means that as far as God and the church are concerned the divorce of an unbeliever is washed away at conversion and it no longer exists.

What will people say if the church has a divorced deacon?

Just as God has exercised grace to you and I for our previous sins, God freely extends grace to all those whom He chooses. “Our testimony” is not what is at stake here “God’s testimony” is what in on the line. The people of Ridglea must let God judge when He chooses and extend grace when He chooses. To extend God’s grace to some sins and not to others is hypocrisy and not acceptable to the holiness of God’s church. There are many men who are divorced that should not be considered for the office of deacon. But there are a few men who God considers eligible. The church must not eliminate those men because of what transpired many years ago in their past. If they are presently men after God’s own heart and are full of wisdom and the Spirit they should serve.

Our nature, here at Ridglea is this…We are a Church of broken people who have been through the junk of life. Someone once said to me, “I have a lot of junk in my trunk.” Well that is who we are, a people with a past. We are a forgiven and freed people and we attract people who need to be forgiven. To this is say praise the Lord! That makes us a Church who understands the grace of God and a Church who is diligently seeking the Holiness of God. 

In Conclusion

To sum up, there are three biblically approved situations where a man can be divorced and still be eligible to serve as a deacon. 1) In the case of his ex-wife’s adultery. 2) If his unbelieving wife has abandoned him and 3) if his divorce was before his coming to Christ.

I am God’s under-shepherd here at Ridglea. God holds me accountable to preach and teach His Word with the greatest accuracy that I am capable of. James 4:17 says, “It is sin for the person who knows to do good and doesn’t do it.” Therefore I would be sinful if I did not preach the text as God has revealed it to me.

It also needs to be noted that for a deacon who has been divorced to be allowed to serve at Ridglea is not something new. There have been and are deacons who have been divorced in the past who served with honor, character, wisdom, godliness and are Spirit filled. To now say they cannot is a change in our Church’s theology; a change that would violate scripture and a change which would grieve the Spirit of God.

God calls me to bring you along in your knowledge of scripture, not to beat you over the head with the Bible. Know that no matter how the church votes I will still continue to pastor and teach the Word of God as God reveals it to me. If you, as the church, are unable to see and understand these truths I will love you and wait patiently until the day that you can see more clearly. I love you and care deeply for you. May God lead us to do His will.

 

 

 

 
submitted on Thursday, February 9, 2012 - 18:09 by stevecirlot

Please watch this message from Bro. Steve Cirlot

submitted on Saturday, February 4, 2012 - 11:50 by stevecirlot

Just finished the book The Cost of Discipleship by Dietrich Bonhoeffer so I sat down and wrote some thought about Grace. Thought you might fined them interesting.
BY GRACE:

  1.  I die daily because I have been crucified with Christ and my flesh (fallen nature or old self) no longer lives; Christ lives in me. Therefore, by virtue of Christ, I am now perfect.  There is no sin in my past which I am guilty of; it is washed away.
  2. Jesus pushes the me out of me so that my me will be He. By God's power (not mine) my daily act of dyeing is a gift from Him which is delivered by the Holy Spirit. Today I die and Christ lives in me.
  3. Christ living in me performs the good works for which God created me. Therefore, I have noting to boast in, other than Christ Himself. (It is not me who does it it is Christ)
  4. I die; Christ lives in me. God sanctifies me daily for the sake of His Kingdom. My whole duty is to die daily. All else is up to Him in me. The real beauty is His grace gives me the ability to lay down my life daily. My ability to die is not even of myself it is of the One whom I follow, the One who died to give me life.

Hope you enjoy. See you Sunday if not before. God loves you And so do I.
 

submitted on Saturday, January 28, 2012 - 17:23 by admin

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